tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post2632895526293400758..comments2024-01-28T06:33:07.421-06:00Comments on Velvet Over Steel: Attitude and ConflictVelvet Over Steelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08625445902301159594noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-52591283262040255772010-04-02T07:44:35.359-05:002010-04-02T07:44:35.359-05:00I used to argue my point to no end. But I've ...I used to argue my point to no end. But I've grown inside and now I just let it go. It's much better this way. Less stress on the mind and body.sheilahttp://www.myaventine.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-25905335763276581912010-04-01T18:41:18.565-05:002010-04-01T18:41:18.565-05:00interesting article which many people should read,...interesting article which many people should read, handling conflict is different throughout, it depends on the person, great post :)william mansonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01127816115228181041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-73083406848464509772010-04-01T13:08:52.681-05:002010-04-01T13:08:52.681-05:00I try to avoid conflict. I don't deal well wi...I try to avoid conflict. I don't deal well with it. Sometimes I'll let things continue even though they annoy me and piss me off before I say anything which just annoys and pisses me off even more, only I'm more mad at myself at that point because I let it continue. Then when I finally do say how I feel, it's always a huge relief afterwards!<br /><br />I do agree attitude has asprinkleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09081967372702276914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-54054668704754809182010-04-01T09:35:48.258-05:002010-04-01T09:35:48.258-05:00Though I have trouble putting the concept into act...Though I have trouble putting the concept into action--I really do believe attitude has everything to do with it. I am working on one of those people who let things go. Every day I see people who hold on to hurt and it just ends up hurting them.Bossy Bettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12568355839499622409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-89624797440067472262010-04-01T08:26:27.683-05:002010-04-01T08:26:27.683-05:00I TOTALLY agree...it is all in the attitude. I ha...I TOTALLY agree...it is all in the attitude. I have certain individuals in my life that are the same way...always have to be right. I just figure I have to let it go. Great post!Darciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13433894747049535179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-26769819430820247222010-04-01T07:16:26.683-05:002010-04-01T07:16:26.683-05:00i think that attitude has a lot to do with conflic...i think that attitude has a lot to do with conflict...i think knowing how you are going to handle conflist before you get into it matters even more...if you have really engaging relationships their will be conflict...particularly in a marriage...we have rules we established early on that help guide us in those moments.Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-36707901753034636012010-04-01T06:07:33.479-05:002010-04-01T06:07:33.479-05:00This is a very good post, Coreen. I agree that at...This is a very good post, Coreen. I agree that attitude counts for a lot on how conflict is resolved. :)Buckeroomamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02408502555249594576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-67357791455646777402010-04-01T03:30:33.709-05:002010-04-01T03:30:33.709-05:00There's a right way and a wrong way of dealing...There's a right way and a wrong way of dealing with anything, Be in a calm state of mind always get more results than being angry.<br /><br />Have a nice day.<br />Yvonne.RHYTHM AND RHYMEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11386975261804630799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-79916473474816220922010-04-01T02:46:53.490-05:002010-04-01T02:46:53.490-05:00Aww Coreen- I'm so sorry to know you've ha...Aww Coreen- I'm so sorry to know you've had to deal with so much pain. I'm happy life is good now. You're right- the attitude really matters. May the word just spread and turn the world into a nicer place.<br /><br />As for you, stay good. God bless :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-90138384172522813522010-03-31T21:53:21.699-05:002010-03-31T21:53:21.699-05:00Velvet Over Steel,
This is a great post. I wish a...Velvet Over Steel,<br /><br />This is a great post. I wish all teachers could read it. I am like you. I will go to great lengths to avoid conflict. God gave us all special gifts and talents and at times, I have to remind myself of that when I disagree with a person. If God can forgive me, who am I to want to hold a grudge or leave a conflict unresolved. I would agree with DL, agree to disagree VKThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14017490749224577620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-56500007417711641772010-03-31T21:32:50.763-05:002010-03-31T21:32:50.763-05:00See, that's a good attitude right there! :-)See, that's a good attitude right there! :-)Velvet Over Steelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08625445902301159594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3616033152327236452.post-45630917276826434662010-03-31T21:25:16.682-05:002010-03-31T21:25:16.682-05:00For me, its perfectly okay to agree to disagree. ...For me, its perfectly okay to agree to disagree. There doesn't have to be a winner and loser. :)DL Hammonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007260062331783715noreply@blogger.com