It is very hard for me to put myself out there. I have done so a few times in the last 5 years and it has never worked out well. In the past I have ended up embarrassed and even humiliated, making it almost impossible to trust the men who ask me out.
I want to understand why some men I meet turn out to be stalkers. Immediately deciding that I’m the ‘one’ and pursuing me at full speed. To the point I consider getting a restraining order because they won’t take no for an answer.
While other men, whom I think are a possible match, give mixed signals and play games. Men who seem interested one day and distant the next. These men are constantly running hot and cold in spite of my patience and remaining independent. I don’t understand them or why I seem to attract these mixed up souls.
For once I would like to attract an honest, sincere man who doesn’t play games. I want a man who will work at quality relationship and willing to fight for it or me as the case may be. That’s the man I want to pursue me next... a quality stalker please!
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Tuesday, March 2, 2010
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Blessings and prayers,
ReplyDeleteandrea
I can't wrap my head around the concept of stalking, period. I mean, why would you pursue somebody who obviously doesn't want you around?? Being in a relationship is as much about feeling loved, so with 1/2 the equation missing why push? *Scratching head*
ReplyDeleteI wish I could offer you some sure-fire advice, like a sportsmans secret fishing hole where you'd be guaranteed to reel in some beauty's, but no such luck. They are out there though...probably writing a blog post just like this one. :)
I sure hope so! Thanks!! :-)
ReplyDeleteThe right person is out there. He'll show up when you are least expecting it. Happy FF.
ReplyDeleteSaying it will happen is not very reassuring, I am sure you would like the Who, What, Where and When, huh?
ReplyDeleteI found you through FF and I am so happy that I did.